If you’re like most guys, your kissing skills aren’t even something that you give much thought to. You pucker up, tilt your head to make sure you don’t smash noses and you kiss, right? Well, then there’s passionate kissing. You just apply more pressure and perhaps just get into it a little bit more. Beyond that there’s French kissing and how difficult is that? You’ve been doing this for a while now and you’ve never heard any complaints, right? The short of it is, if you haven’t heard consistently from your girlfriend, present and past, that you’re a great kisser then you might have a problem. Kissing is extremely important to women. Your kissing skills are probably more of a determining factor in the future of your relationship than you even realize!
Typically, a woman will look forward to that first kiss once you have passed all other tests that she might have for a prospective boyfriend. But your kissing skills, or lack of, could easily spell doom for your relationship if you are found lacking. Close to one half of all women polled said that they would not proceed further in a relationship with a man that didn’t know how to kiss. This means that almost one half of all women will not find you desirable if you don’t know how to kiss.
After that first kiss it is said that a woman can tell all that she needs to know about a man. Have you made her weak in the knees? Did you make her toes curl? Did that first kiss take her breath away? Did that first kiss change things for her and tell her that it is true love? Was there magic in the air and was she suddenly drunk with passion? Of course, if that first kiss wasn’t everything that she had dreamed it would be she might give you another chance to stir her heart. Everyone has a bad day and you could have been nervous, after all.
Once the two of you have had your first kiss you can bet that she is going to let all of her girlfriends know though. One of the first things that a woman will share with her girlfriends is whether or not you are a good kisser. Her friends will be waiting to hear. News that you are a good kisser will be greeted with requests for more information and often your girlfriend will share with her friends when, where and how your kiss made her feel. On the other hand, if you are a poor kisser, reports of the first kiss will be met with great sadness. No, it doesn’t make you completely undateable to every woman but it definitely is a strike against you. Likewise, having superior kissing abilities makes you very desirable in the eyes of your girlfriend.
So, if you haven’t heard consistently from all your past girlfriends that you’re a great kisser them perhaps it’s time to see what you can do about learning how to kiss. After all, kissing isn’t merely a physical act of puckering up and pressing your lips against your girlfriend’s lips. Guys with superior kissing skills know that there is so much more to creating truly memorable kisses that will warm her heart and make her swoon.
In closing, learning how to kiss the way she always dreamed of will not only make her happy but the fringe benefits that it opens up to you far outweigh any amount of effort that you might need to put into it. Even if you are a fair to good kisser, couldn’t we all use a little improvement in an area so important to our significant other? I am sure you agree…
Want to learn more about kissing and how to create truly memorable kisses? Read Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101. Find out how to kiss her the way she has always dreamed of and win her heart forever.
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